Add option permit having "affected" or "found" rows

Like said in old comment, add "useAffectedRows" property in url connection.

Like MySQL connector :

useAffectedRows

Don't set the CLIENT_FOUND_ROWS flag when connecting to the server (not JDBC-compliant, will break most applications that rely on "found" rows vs. "affected rows" for DML statements), but does cause "correct" update counts from "INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE" statements to be returned by the server.

Default: false

Since version: 5.1.7