State transfer to 0.0 (db51) failed

hi
i have install these on cents 6.6 selinux disabled and iptables closed on both server, the only difference is servers are in different locations

MariaDB-compat-10.0.17-1.el6.x86_64
MariaDB-common-10.0.17-1.el6.x86_64
perl-Pod-Escapes-1.04-136.el6_6.1.x86_64
perl-libs-5.10.1-136.el6_6.1.x86_64
perl-version-0.77-136.el6_6.1.x86_64
perl-Module-Pluggable-3.90-136.el6_6.1.x86_64
perl-Pod-Simple-3.13-136.el6_6.1.x86_64
perl-5.10.1-136.el6_6.1.x86_64
perl-DBI-1.609-4.el6.x86_64
MariaDB-client-10.0.17-1.el6.x86_64
galera-25.3.5-1.rhel6.x86_64
lsof-4.82-4.el6.x86_64
rsync-3.1.1-1.el6.x86_64
MariaDB-Galera-server-10.0.16-1.el6.x86_64

and i got

150309 19:11:31 [Warning] WSREP: 1.0 (db1): State transfer to 0.0 (db51) failed: -255 (Unknown error 255)
150309 19:11:31 [ERROR] WSREP: gcs/src/gcs_group.c:gcs_group_handle_join_msg():723: Will never receive state. Need to abort.
150309 19:11:31 [Note] WSREP: gcomm: terminating thread

all the log files joiner and the donor are in the attach