181009 13:15:36 [ERROR] mysqld got exception 0xc0000005 ;

This could be because you hit a bug. It is also possible that this binary

or one of the libraries it was linked against is corrupt, improperly built,

or misconfigured. This error can also be caused by malfunctioning hardware.

To report this bug, see https://mariadb.com/kb/en/reporting-bugs

We will try our best to scrape up some info that will hopefully help

diagnose the problem, but since we have already crashed, 

something is definitely wrong and this may fail.

Server version: 10.3.10-MariaDB

key_buffer_size=134217728

read_buffer_size=67108864

max_used_connections=9

max_threads=65537

thread_count=15

It is possible that mysqld could use up to 

key_buffer_size + (read_buffer_size + sort_buffer_size)*max_threads = 266025 K  bytes of memory

Hope that's ok; if not, decrease some variables in the equation.

Thread pointer: 0xd8581db018

Attempting backtrace. You can use the following information to find out

where mysqld died. If you see no messages after this, something went

terribly wrong...

mysqld.exe!Field::eq()[field.h:886]

mysqld.exe!Item_bool_func::get_mm_parts()[opt_range.cc:7861]

mysqld.exe!Item_bool_func::get_ne_mm_tree()[opt_range.cc:7024]

mysqld.exe!Item_func_ne::get_func_mm_tree()[item_cmpfunc.h:828]

mysqld.exe!Item_bool_func::get_full_func_mm_tree()[opt_range.cc:7558]

mysqld.exe!Item_bool_func::get_full_func_mm_tree_for_args()[item_cmpfunc.h:201]

mysqld.exe!Item_bool_func2_with_rev::get_mm_tree()[item_cmpfunc.h:488]

mysqld.exe!Item_cond_and::get_mm_tree()[opt_range.cc:7613]

mysqld.exe!calculate_cond_selectivity_for_table()[opt_range.cc:3078]

mysqld.exe!make_join_statistics()[sql_select.cc:4919]

mysqld.exe!JOIN::optimize_inner()[sql_select.cc:1896]

mysqld.exe!JOIN::optimize()[sql_select.cc:1450]

mysqld.exe!mysql_select()[sql_select.cc:4220]

mysqld.exe!handle_select()[sql_select.cc:370]

mysqld.exe!execute_sqlcom_select()[sql_parse.cc:6547]

mysqld.exe!mysql_execute_command()[sql_parse.cc:3769]

mysqld.exe!mysql_parse()[sql_parse.cc:8096]

mysqld.exe!dispatch_command()[sql_parse.cc:1852]

mysqld.exe!do_command()[sql_parse.cc:1394]

mysqld.exe!threadpool_process_request()[threadpool_common.cc:358]

mysqld.exe!tp_callback()[threadpool_common.cc:186]

ntdll.dll!RtlFreeUnicodeString()

ntdll.dll!RtlFreeUnicodeString()

KERNEL32.DLL!BaseThreadInitThunk()

ntdll.dll!RtlUserThreadStart()

Trying to get some variables.

Some pointers may be invalid and cause the dump to abort.

Query (0xc177cbc040): SELECT absenceId 

FROM absence 

JOIN employee USING(employeeid)

WHERE name='...' AND absenceId <> -1

AND start BETWEEN '2018-12-24' AND '2018-12-24'

OR end BETWEEN '2018-12-24' AND '2018-12-24'

Connection ID (thread ID): 8

Status: NOT_KILLED

Optimizer switch: index_merge=on,index_merge_union=on,index_merge_sort_union=on,index_merge_intersection=on,index_merge_sort_intersection=off,engine_condition_pushdown=off,index_condition_pushdown=on,derived_merge=on,derived_with_keys=on,firstmatch=on,loosescan=on,materialization=on,in_to_exists=on,semijoin=on,partial_match_rowid_merge=on,partial_match_table_scan=on,subquery_cache=on,mrr=off,mrr_cost_based=on,mrr_sort_keys=on,outer_join_with_cache=on,semijoin_with_cache=on,join_cache_incremental=on,join_cache_hashed=on,join_cache_bka=on,optimize_join_buffer_size=on,table_elimination=on,extended_keys=on,exists_to_in=on,orderby_uses_equalities=on,condition_pushdown_for_derived=on,split_materialized=on

The manual page at http://dev.mysql.com/doc/mysql/en/crashing.html contains

information that should help you find out what is causing the crash.

2018-10-09 13:15:47 28 [ERROR] mysqld.exe: Out of memory (Needed 67104792 bytes)