Cluster node may enter in unresolved conflict state when there are two inserts, with same primary key, into a table which has foreign key constraint for a parent table. These inserts must be issued in separate cluster nodes, and there has to be simultaneous writes (updates or deletes), for the referenced parent row.
As a result of such scenario, replication applier thread may end in unresolved conflict state, And error log will be filled by messages of type:
"WSREP: BF lock wait long"
followed by InnoDB monitor outputs
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Submitted a pull request, which has a mtr test for reproducing this issue with 10.2 and 10.3 HEAD versions
Pull request fixes a race condition in row0ins.cc, assigning this for review