The second node can't join the first node because SST will get killed by systemd after the default timeout hits.
systemctl show mariadb.service | grep Timeout will show timeout set to 1m 30s for startup, but an SST can last hours with large dataset and/or slow disks and/or slow networks.
In fact, it is common for an SST to take several hours in production.
Setting TimeoutSec=0 under Services in the mariadb.service config file under systemd fixes the problem.
Right now, it is impossible to deploy Galera Cluster under 10.2.13 and CentOS 7 unless the above workaround is in place.
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the same issue was observed with data set of ~12G when 3rd Node was joining
sst failed with wsrep_sst_method=mariabackup but also with set rsync
joiner: => Rate:[ 39MiB/s] Avg:[32.9MiB/s] Elapsed:0:01:20
WSREP_SST: [ERROR] Removing /var/lib/mysql//.sst/xtrabackup_galera_info file due to signal (20180320 16:13:50.761)
WSREP_SST: [ERROR] Cleanup after exit with status:143 (20180320 16:13:50.765)
2018-03-20 16:13:50 140406339643136 [ERROR] WSREP: Process completed with error: wsrep_sst_mariabackup --role 'joiner' --address '192.168.104.193' --datadir '/var/lib/mysql/' --parent '13420' '' : 4 (Interrupted system call)