• https://jira.mariadb.org/browse/MDEV-25359

1. Pass joiner's authentication information to donor together with address
in State Transfer Request. This allows joiner to authenticate donor on
connection. Previously joiner would accept data from anywhere.

2. Deprecate custom SSL configuration variables tca, tcert and tkey in favor
of more familiar ssl-ca, ssl-cert and ssl-key. For backward compatibility
tca, tcert and tkey are still supported.

3. Allow falling back to server-wide SSL configuration in [mysqld] if no SSL
configuration is found in [sst] section of the config file.

4. Introduce ssl-mode variable in [sst] section that takes standard values
and has following effects:

• old-style SSL configuration present in [sst]: no effect
  otherwise:
• ssl-mode=DISABLED or absent: retains old, backward compatible behavior
  and ignores any other SSL configuration
• ssl-mode=VERIFY*: verify joiner's certificate and CN on donor,
  verify donor's secret on joiner
  (passed to donor via State Transfer Request)
  BACKWARD INCOMPATIBLE BEHAVIOR
• anything else enables new SSL configuration convetions but does not
  require verification

ssl-mode should be set to VERIFY only in a fully upgraded cluster.

Examples:

[mysqld]
ssl-cert=/path/to/cert
ssl-key=/path/to/key
ssl-ca=/path/to/ca

[sst]

– server-wide SSL configuration is ignored, SST does not use SSL

[mysqld]
ssl-cert=/path/to/cert
ssl-key=/path/to/key
ssl-ca=/path/to/ca

[sst]
ssl-mode=REQUIRED

– use server-wide SSL configuration for SST but don't attempt to
verify the peer identity

[sst]
ssl-cert=/path/to/cert
ssl-key=/path/to/key
ssl-ca=/path/to/ca
ssl-mode=VERIFY_CA

– use SST-specific SSL configuration for SST and require verification
on both sides