MariaDB all nodes stuck on shutdown

All the following is logged in as root.

If I reboot any node it gets stuck at shutting down mariadb. It does the same thing if I do a "systemctl stop mariadb".

I've been shutting it down then doing a "ps -A | grep mariadb" and then a "kill -9 pid" to make it stop. Then I can perform upgrades, or reboots. The service must be killed to stop.

I've attached a log that is the same on all my nodes when I attempt to stop the service. I did see someone say something about time zones so I set one group of nodes in a cluster to UTC but it did not help. These are in the central time zone.

I've included the log of the shutdown to show when they are all getting stuck.

Also, I've let it sit for days and it will not shutdown.

I am happy to try anything because I have created a test cluster to see if I can get things working.