Upgrade to 10.4 fails on some Ubuntu's due to dialog.so conflict

Unpacking libmariadb3:amd64 (1:10.4.2+maria~bionic) ...

dpkg: error processing archive /tmp/apt-dpkg-install-P4wV3z/1-libmariadb3_10.4.2+maria~bionic_amd64.deb (--unpack):

 trying to overwrite '/usr/lib/mysql/plugin/dialog.so', which is also in package libmariadbclient18 1:10.1.34+maria-1~bionic

dpkg-deb: error: paste subprocess was killed by signal (Broken pipe)

Preparing to unpack .../2-libmariadbclient18_10.4.2+maria~bionic_amd64.deb ...

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Errors were encountered while processing:

 /tmp/apt-dpkg-install-P4wV3z/1-libmariadb3_10.4.2+maria~bionic_amd64.deb

E: Sub-process /usr/bin/dpkg returned an error code (1)