galera cannot detect mysqld coredump

I was running mariadb with galera on 3 nodes(2 nodes + 1 garb).
One of the nodes often coredumps.
And when the coredump happens, it calls addr2line, which takes a very long time to finish.
While other nodes stills think it's alive and end up with huge queues of transaction.
I tried to disable coredump so it could die completely and didn't succeed.

Here are things I tried
1. changing the kernel parameter kern.corecump to 0
2. Adding core_file_size=0 to my.cnf
3. add mysql_limits_args to /etc/rc.conf

None of them worked.
It always calls addr2line, which I am not sure whether it will ever finish. I always manually killed all mysql processes when this happens.

Do I have to build mariadb with special flags to disable addr2line?